After a few years of trying the NaNoWriMo challenge and winning at failing (making the word count easily, but never actually writing a “novel”–more on this later), I was looking for something that would help me deal with the real issues I had with writing and finishing my assorted unfinished stories that have begun cluttering my computers as well as my house. A brief sojourn to Chuck Wendig’s humorously brutal blog TerribleMinds and his 25 Things posts (there are many and all are a hoot and a kick in the pants at the same time; this one dealt with NaNoWriMo) clued me into a possible place to work out writing and life.
A Round of Words in 80 Days, or ROW80 as most of the people involved with the challenge call it, advertises itself as “the writing challenge that knows you have a life”. Exactly what I needed. Not to say that my own lack of self-discipline hasn’t been having a certain effect on my writing (and lack thereof) but the truth is, I’ve not yet found a way, even after my son is nearing his sixth birthday and my marriage is nearing its ten-year anniversary and the majority of remodeling has been done on the house…. well, the only way I’ve found to write is those treasured times when the world just “disappears” for a time and I can spend several hours in the blissful escapism of my fictional worlds away from anything that seems “distracting.
As you might guess, this just doesn’t work. It’s stressful because it’s so unrealistic. I don’t want to deny my family my time anymore than I want to deny myself my writing. But I often feel like it’s an affair with one or the other, cheating one love out of my attention and devotion for the sake of another and the reverse as well. (Cue Mary MacGregor — Torn Between Two Lovers)
So, on January 2nd, I will be trying to bring my passions together and build a life that is more honest in the admission that I can’t just do one or the other. I know, I’ve tried and I always go back to the one left behind. Here I will be posting any Row80 Check-Ins and if I write any shorter pieces, I’ll be posting links to the separate pieces I’ve managed to accomplish during the next 80 days of The Writerly Life ™.
Since I’ve decided to go for more than one Round of Words, I have archived all of the posts for ROWnd 1 and will likewise be doing the same for all future Rounds I participate in. Feel free to look them over and giggle. 😉
- 2012 ROWnd 1 posts
- 2012 ROWnd 2 posts
NOW, after wrestling with linky tools and adding unweildly badges, and singing up and accidentally posting the blog hop list, I will be looking up The Writerly Life tm.
Oh, and you said something about Scivener, and we never followed up……
Another fine mess you’ve gotten me into. Gee, thanks. So, Very, Much.
No one is tell you that you have to do it except yourself. I just brought it to your attention because I thought you might be interested (which you were…I am evil THAT way). And a fine mess… I rather thought of it more like a mural.
Wow Row80 scares the hell out of me so I will just be a peeper on your journey for now! Maybe join in April. I only just started writing on February 1st!
(And I don’t even know how to add badges OR better yet, single space or change the font size. 😮 )
Keep it up!
Don’t be scared of it–Join it! 😉 Really though, the people I have met through the ROW80 challenge have been some of the most amazing, helpful, kind… just all-around awesome people I’ve met online (and I’ve met many many wonderful people through my keyboard). It just matters what your focus is. I want to publish stories. I want to write. If you want to do either, perhaps the ROW is for you. If not, there are a lot of other helpful groups that you could be involved with.
Either way, if the piece I read today is any example… You’re going to be just fine! 😎
I have no idea what is going to come out each time I type. Just trying to string thoughts together…like you I feel like there is some unfinished business and pieces that have to be written so the other work can begin! I will poke around the Row and join in April! YIKES.
Good for you! I’m sure you’ll love it. Andlet me offer you a preemptive “Welcome to the ROW”